Brilliant, clever, empathetic, caring, fun
Cooper’s life was marked by challenges from the very beginning. Born addicted to heroin, he faced invisible disabilities that made everyday tasks a struggle. He required a lot of extra time and attention from his parents, who did their best to control his environment so he would be successful. Despite the obstacles he faced, Cooper persevered, his determination and resilience inspiring those who knew him. He was a bright light to those in his orbit.
Cooper was a complicated individual. As his mother put it, “Cooper was a challenge wrapped in an enigma with a core of empathy.” Though challenging, he was also clever, funny, and empathetic. He had a way of making people feel like they were his best friend, and his energy was infectious.
Cooper loved music and was learning to play the guitar, a pastime that brought him joy. He also enjoyed spending time with his friends, playing video games, and was learning to caddy for his father.
One of Cooper’s favorite things in life was sleep. He loved sleeping in and was often found wrapped in fuzzy blankets and hoodies. His love for sleep was almost legendary among his family and friends and he looked forward to his annual Christmas Eve sleep pants.
Cooper had a goal to join the military and had tons of dreams of things he might do in life. Cooper’s family was very important to him. He was close to his sister Chandler and brothers Connor, Chase, and Cameron. Cooper also had a significant relationship with his girlfriend, Wren, who tragically followed him in death just a few months later. His best friends, Nathan and Maleki meant a lot to him and during his memorial service, other friends talked about how Cooper literally saved their lives by being present, listening, or helping them in a crisis.
Cooper’s struggles with substance use disorder (SUD) were a significant challenge for him and for his family. His disease changed him, causing him to become withdrawn and defiant. “He began to lie and steal from all of us driven by a compulsion he couldn’t control,” his mother, Annette, stated. “It was like living with a stranger who was trying to destroy my son.” Cooper’s parents struggled to keep him safe from his addiction, always trying to do what was right for him, as they had throughout his life. Now the gaping hole in their lives is vast.
Cooper survived so many challenges only to succumb to his addiction, at such a young age. However, his life was not defined by his struggles and his substance use disorder. Cooper is remembered for his empathy, resilience, determination, and his capacity to love and be loved.
Cooper’s mother, Annette Root, provided the information for this narrative.
July 5, 2007-September 15, 2023-Age 16
Portrait Artist: Elizabeth Jones
Narrative Writer: Barbara Francois
