Wise beyond his years, empathy for others
Jordan had a deep love for both physical and digital spaces. He was equally passionate about video games and fishing, enjoyed a diverse range of music, and found solace hiking through the woods, taking in the quiet of nature. Known for his remarkable empathy, Jordan had a unique ability to connect with others, making them feel heard and comfortable, no matter their background.
Academically gifted from a young age, Jordan amazed others with his ability to grasp complex subjects. By fourth grade, he was learning Japanese and excelled in math, always eager to question things and seek answers. His curiosity extended to his love for football; he was a dedicated follower of the Atlanta Falcons and the Michigan Wolverines, keeping meticulous track of game statistics and team performances.
As the eldest of four, Jordan’s relationships with his siblings Taylor, Hunter, and Rylie, were integral to his life. He and Taylor often clashed, but beneath their arguments, he was fiercely protective of her. With Hunter, Jordan shared a strong bond over their mutual love for music and video games. His connection with his baby sister Rylie, born with Cerebral Palsy, was especially profound. From the moment he fed her in the ICU, Jordan was committed to supporting her development and independence. His efforts to learn about her disability and his desire to be actively involved in her life were a testament to his caring nature. Jordan also had a close relationship with his stepfather, Ben, with whom he enjoyed cooking and shared many joyful moments. Jordan and his mother, Diane, shared a uniquely special bond, characterized by the deep connection that often exists between a first-born child and their mother. He cherished traveling to Omaha to celebrate holidays with his extended family, relishing his role as a loving and active cousin to his younger relatives.
Jordan’s struggle with substance use disorder began during high school and lasted for six challenging years. After graduating from Urbandale High School in 2014, he sought treatment and achieved a notable three-year period of recovery. During this time, Jordan worked at the Cheesecake Factory and explored a future in real estate, even purchasing his first car. Despite his battles, he remained dedicated to guiding others away from the dangers of substance misuse, a fact that continues to be shared with Diane by his friends today.
Unfortunately, Jordan’s addiction led to profound changes, making him increasingly distant and self-destructive. This heartbreaking struggle culminated in his tragic death from heroin laced with carfentanil. Diane deeply mourns his absence, particularly during significant life events for Rylie and other missed milestones. In her grief, Diane has shared Jordan’s story extensively, receiving gratitude from many parents for her openness. She remains steadfast in advocating for the understanding of addiction as a disease and to connecting with other grieving parents to challenge and change the stigma associated with it.
Jordan’s mother, Diane Proffitt, provided the information for this narrative.
November 15, 1995–March 25, 2017–Age 21
Portrait Artist: Shawn Faust
Narrative Writer: Justin Teague
