Loving, intelligent, humorous, sensitive, talented
Matt was a vibrant, well-rounded individual with a life marked by love, laughter, and the ability to adapt to any situation. Born with a quick wit and an infectious sense of humor, Matt had a unique ability to connect with people from all walks of life.
Matt loved all things sports and music. He enjoyed going to concerts and, as a teenager, excelled in baseball as a skilled catcher. His passion for the game led his AAU team to the Little League National Series, where he placed second in pitching accuracy at the national level. He also enjoyed skateboarding, playing video games, and any social event, striking up conversations with anyone. Matt was incredibly intelligent and a perfectionist, often struggling to accept life’s imperfections. He loved to debate and argue his point of view, and was respected by his peers.
Very family-oriented, Matt treasured sleepovers at his grandma and grandpa Stover’s home as a child, which included going out to eat, shopping, watching a movie or gathering around the kitchen table, playing cards or board games. Spending time with his brothers, Christopher, Michael, and Nicholas, and his best friend, Joe, was always great. He and his older brother, Chris, played sports together, and the two protected their younger brothers from bullies. Matt had a special bond with each of them and a good relationship with his stepfather, Dave.
After graduating from high school, Matt attended Mercy College of Health until he tested positive for drugs. He diverted his interest to working in the plumbing industry, later taking pride in pointing out buildings where he had been responsible for the plumbing work.
Matt married Anne, and they had their son Benjamin together. Matt’s face lit up when he talked about Ben, and his love for him knew no bounds. After four years, Matt and Anne divorced because of the substance use disorder that plagued them both. When children’s services became involved and Matt’s time with Ben became limited, it was a devasting blow. Benjamin was later legally adopted by Matt’s Aunt Jodi and Uncle Skip. He is now sixteen. Matt valued the times he spent with Ben when he was not in active addiction and had a strong desire to live a life free from drug use so he could see more of him.
In the last few years, Matt reestablished a prior relationship with Maddie and her daughter Cynthia. Maddie was devoted to helping Matt stay drug free, getting married, establishing a home and family with him, and to making sure they saw Ben regularly.
Matt’s disease changed his personality, causing him to struggle with lying and stealing, and creating chaos in the lives of those around him. He sought treatment to conquer his substance use disorder in a residential treatment facility. Despite Matt’s efforts to overcome his addiction, it ultimately claimed his life at the age of 28, while in the treatment center.
Matt’s passing has left an unfillable void in the lives of those who knew him. His mother recalls the countless times he brightened her day with his witty remarks and infectious laughter. She misses the simple things–his hugs, and his voice on the phone saying, “Hey Momma.” “He was a blessing and made a huge impact in the 28 years he was here,” Lori said.
Matt’s mother, Lori Sandblom, provided the information for this narrative.
September 26, 1988-April 12, 2017-Age 28
Portrait Artist: Theresa Clower
Narrative Writer: Barbara Francois
